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20 June 2026

Anarchic agreements: the rules we make ourselves

Almost every rule you follow today was written by someone you will never meet, for reasons nobody explained, long before you arrived. You inherited it. The speed limit, the office handbook, the terms of service you scrolled past and accepted. Most of the time we go along with rules like these because going along is easier than the alternative, not because we ever sat down and agreed to them.

An anarchic agreement is the other kind. It exists only because the people bound by it made it. Nobody handed it down, and nobody can, because the authority lives in the agreement itself, held by everyone who shaped it, rather than in a ruler standing over them.

That is where the word comes from. “Anarchic” reads as chaos in everyday use, but its root is an-archos, without a ruler. It does not mean no rules. It means no boss above the rules. There is a whole practical literature on this now, most usefully a book called Anarchic Agreements: A Field Guide to Collective Organising, written by Ruth Kinna, Alex Prichard, Thomas Swann and the Seeds for Change co-op and drawn from more than twenty years of helping real groups organise themselves. Its central claim is plain and worth taking seriously: a group can write its own constitution, govern itself, and balance its own power, with nobody in charge.

Made, not inherited

This is the part to hold onto. An anarchic agreement is created, not inherited. The people involved make it, and they keep making it, because every new member and every change in circumstance reopens it. That sounds like more work, and it is. It is also where the strength comes from. People keep agreements they helped write. They argue with rules that arrive from above, look for the gaps, and follow them only as far as someone is watching. Authorship changes the relationship. When the agreement is partly yours, keeping it becomes a matter of integrity rather than compliance.

The agreements in this tradition are living documents. They are made by consent, written down so everyone can see them, and changed whenever the people who made them decide they need changing. A rule you inherit stays fixed until some authority above you revises it. An agreement you made is yours to reopen the moment it stops working.

How a group with no leader actually runs

The genuinely useful thing about the field guide is that it takes on the questions political theory usually skips: how a group with no leader actually decides anything, how it stops power pooling in the hands of whoever is most confident or has the most time, and how it holds a shared culture together as people come and go.

The answers are unglamorous and practical. You write the constitution down so it can be questioned by anyone. You make decisions by consensus, so a choice needs people’s agreement rather than a slim majority steamrolling everyone else. You name the roles that carry power and you rotate them, so no informal in-crowd hardens into a permanent committee. You build in a way to revise the agreement and a way to handle the person who breaks it, because an agreement with no answer to a breach is only a wish.

None of that requires a leader. It requires the group to be deliberate about things that hierarchies usually decide by default. The work that a boss would do alone gets shared out and made visible, which is slower at the start and far harder to capture or corrupt later.

Why they are worth the effort

For a community like the one we are building, this is not abstract theory. It is the daily mechanics of living together.

The first payoff is buy-in. People follow the kitchen rota they helped design and resent the one taped to the wall by a landlord. An agreement you took part in making carries a weight that an instruction never does, and that weight is what makes people keep it when nobody is checking.

The second is adaptability. Life in any shared place changes. A new family arrives, a job falls through, the thing that worked last winter stops working in spring. An inherited rulebook has to wait for permission from above to change. An agreement made by the people living under it can be reopened on a Tuesday evening, because the people with the authority to change it are already in the room.

The third is stewardship. When the rules are yours, the place is yours. You stop being a tenant of someone else’s system and start being a custodian of your own. Responsibility spreads out instead of collecting at the top, and a place that everyone is responsible for is a place that actually gets looked after.

The honest part

None of this is free, and the field guide is honest about that, which is most of why it is worth reading. Consensus can be slow. Open agreements take real effort to maintain, and the effort never quite ends. Power does not vanish because a group declared itself non-hierarchical. It re-forms in subtler ways, through who speaks most and who has been there longest, and it has to be watched for on purpose. Free-riders are real, and an agreement only holds if the group has a shared answer to the person who keeps breaking it.

The practical tools exist precisely because these problems are real. They keep the problems solvable by the group itself, instead of letting them become the excuse for handing the keys back to a single person in charge. That is the whole wager of the book, and of this way of living: the difficulties of governing yourselves are worth more than the false ease of being governed.

What this means for us

This is what we mean when we say a place should be governed by everyone. The agreements belong to the people who live by them, and those same people wrote them.

We are not going to inherit the community we want. There is no constitution waiting in a drawer for us, no set of house rules that arrives finished and correct. We will have to make our agreements ourselves, together, and keep remaking them as we learn what we got wrong. That is slower than being handed a rulebook. It is also the only version that will ever really be ours.

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